Do your best

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  I am trying to be honest and I am going to find man who has quiet moments in contemplation and reflection. The man who treats every salah like a personal meeting with Allah SWT and presents himself in the best manner. Who goes out of his way for his parents, siblings, and relatives when he’s exhausted and torn down by the speed of his surroundings and the state of the world? The one who stands strong against oppressors even though his knees tremble at the thought of repercussions. The most beautiful voice is the man who speaks in defence of those whose voices have been subdued. The man with enough muscles to move an obstacle out of the way of an elderly person using a cane. The one who helps strangers in need because humanity unites us. The man who has enough wealth to feed himself, his family, and a few people via sadaqah (low materialistic values and spending on experiences is always better). The smoothness in the way he talks when he discusses the deen using soft inflections. The one who is tested but never loses his manners. The man who accepts that his partner cannot be perfect, but she strives to be as good as possible. The man who embraces her flaws through thick and thin. The one who dreams of raising pious children and struggling to make this a reality (as raising children is not easy). The man who cherishes all the moments — good and bad with her, and trusts that she has so much to offer if only he looks past the conventional attraction that social media, media, and culture expect of her. The one who wants souls and minds to connect — not just bodies. 

No one is perfect 

We women — we exist!!! And we see the brothers who strive in this way. We respect and appreciate the sacrifices. We also recognize that mental health in men is real and not a sign of weakness. We hope to support our spouse and uplift him any chance we get. We will offer our laps to him to lie peacefully in complete seclusion like Prophet Muhammad SAW did with his mother Aisha RA and other wives. 


Hope y’all sweet thangs find your wives✨

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