Advice for young woman

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I love being Muslim and modest As someone aiming to raise strong Muslimahs, I do not like the idea of "women aren't safe anywhere."


Because that instills fear in our girls/women.


Now that doesn't mean we aren't wise in how we move and where we go, it also doesn't mean we don't follow Islamic rulings of traveling with mahram etc if we have mahram around. Or that we unnecessarily go outside or put ourselves in wrong situations and locations. Or we go out uncovered. 


What it means is as we follow all that we remember ultimately Allah is protecting us. If some harm has to come our way it can come anywhere. We don't live our life in fear. We are smart, we have situational awareness. We learn skills necessary for our safety. We follow rules. We do all that because we gotta tie our camel. And after that we fully and wholeheartedly Trust Allah.


A scared woman is an easy target.


Because fear shows, it shows through body language, it shows through how you move around.


Strength shows too.


Our true strength has to come from our belief that Allah is consistently protecting us.


When you feel safe, you act differently. Your body is calm. Your soul is calm.


Again, it DOES NOT mean we dress any kinda way, go to any kinda spot of town, at any kinda time, with any kinda person - under the name of that belief. If you act stupid, don't follow rules, don't expect nobody to be blamed for the problem you created.


Belief and action go hand in hand.


We do our part properly.

Then... 

We stay cool believing and trusting Allah :)


If you struggle to feel safe, dm me, let's book you a call!


Ain't nothing like feeling unsafe... That's very painful feeling.


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