Stop the hate

 There is too much hate in the world enough . difference between people making the world  a better place to live.so we people hate differences Introduction 

There is a saying “True beauty is only skin deep,” but if this saying were truly the case then why is it that an individual’s appearance is the first thing that people in our society judge when we first meet them?  Please don't judge me or anyone based on their appearance tyke didn't deserve to die he didn't even do anything wrong the police wanted to kill him to make an example of him A person grows slowly.  They need family, friends, teachers, and social groups to help gain a perspective or worldview.  An individual needs to learn about social norms, morals, good and bad behaviors, how to build good character, gain knowledge, a good education, and obtain a large well connected social capital network of friends. This will help an individual achieve their dreams and goals in life and become a successful productive, member of society who knows how to make a good decision that not only benefits himself or herself, but benefits all of society as well. This is due to the way we are socialized in society. As a result, from the time we learn to crawl, there are a set of guidelines, rules, expectations, and images on how a person is supposed to look, act, and interact with other people. These factors are based on an individual’s gender, race, and social class, and can be detrimental to the success of women especially. 

The media in society today has portrayed the expectations of women with regard to body image and gender roles negatively especially through the interpretation of reality television shows.  Reality television has dominated the airwaves since the turn of the century. Cheap to produce and popular with viewers, reality shows cover nearly every aspect of human life from work to play. Some shows, such as “Big Brother,” pit competitors against each other to win a prize in a highly constructed setting. In others, such as “Hell’s Kitchen,” participants compete for a job in their chosen industry. Others, for instance “Jersey Shore,” depicts life, albeit a tightly controlled version, as it happens. While the shows are diverse in content, all are predictably packed with conflict and stress

Reality is not always black and white: there is an extensive gray zone, but Flannery O Connor’s characters fail to represent or understand that O Connor’s claims are complex, so she uses irony to suggest how characters are often blind to the reality around them. For example, a person may be physically blind, but that does not mean the person cannot see their environment For example, in reality a blind person can sometimes see better than a person who has sight because blind people are more perceptive . Furthermore, people who can physically see do not always really open their eyes to the important things that really matter in life. As O Connor shows even her most intelligent, or well-well-mannered characters can be blind to the most obvious circumstances. O Connor uses blindness as a metaphor for people who cannot see the true reality of the atmosphere we live in because they get so caught up in the illusion of achieving their worldly desires that they cannot see the truth of the world that is right in front of their eyes. This theme is expressed in O Connor’s short story “A Good Man is Hard to Find,” through the actions of the characters and how they respond to unexpectedly evil circumstances in their lives.  

In “A Good Man is Hard to Find,’” the grandmother shows that she is blind to the true reality of the world because she has a very warped view of what it means to be a “good person”. First, the grandmother is blind to her own bad behavior. For example, when she joyfully tells her grandchildren the story of an old suitor she had, named Edgar A. Teagarden, she explains how th

She often gets to a place where she's out of words, out of patience, out of all the things that make her speak her mind. She knows it's a tenuous place when she finds herself there. After all, it's not what she says when she's upset, fiery, or passionate that truly defines her. Instead, it's those moments of silence when she has run out of words that will tell you everything you want to know about her. Whether she's too tired, doesn't care, or just can't muster up the energy to talk anymore. Those are the times when you'll truly begin to understand her if you pay close attention to her parts that cry out to be heard.

Her eyes will reveal things about her soul that words can never tell you about her.. who she is, her most profound meanings and secrets lie beyond the windows that guard her truths. She's had many people who have crossed her path and never truly understood her because they ignored the things she didn't say, the messages from her heart and soul that she protects from the world. The most beautiful creatures are the ones that have been hurt the deepest, fought for who they've become, and loved the hardest when the opportunity avails itself. She's not the easiest mystery to unravel or the least complicated person to understand, but once you've dove deeper into her depths and witnessed her innermost places. You will soon start to understand why she's a treasure without measure.

 I am astrong woman S an o, when you meet a woman like her, take your time and immerse yourself in one of the most profound, most beautiful people you will ever meet. A strong and fiercely independent woman, don't miss the chance to comprehend all she is. Starting with the things she isn't saying, look beyond her words into her eyes, and you will discover the true beauty of a woman that lies deep within...🖤