Marriage in islam
Marriage is something that will happen when Allaah Subhanahuwa ta’ala wills. So keep trying to find a righteous spouse and leave the rest to Allaah Subhanahu wa ta’ala. Don’t get depressed and don’t lose hope. Always remember Allaah Subhanahu wa ta’ala plans are better than our wishes. Marriage is not the purpose of life; it’s a mean to get closer to Allaah Subhanahu wa ta’ala. This is the best time to work on your relationship with Allaah Subhanahu wa ta’ala. As you get married your responsibilities will also get increased. So prepare yourself for that responsibility, gain Islamic knowledge, and read about the rights of husband, wife and children because when you say yes for the marriage, you have agreed that you are ready to take the responsibility. Remember this life is a test and we are all tested through different trials. It’s also a test that you have to abstain yourself from haram and be patient.
Make lots of dua and while asking Allaah Subhanahu wa Ta’ala always say “if it’s good for me” because we don’t know what’s good for us only Allaah Subhanahu wa Ta’ala knows. Allaah Subhanahu wa Ta’ala loves us more than our mother so His decisions are always for our own good and we have to trust Allaah Subhanahu wa Ta’ala.
“But perhaps you hate a thing and it is good for you; and perhaps you love a thing and it is bad for you. And Allaah Knows, while you know not.” (Quran 2:216)
Always remember this:
“No amount of guilt can change the past and no amount of worrying can change the future. Go easy on yourself for the outcome of all affairs is determined by the decree of Allaah. If something is meant to go elsewhere, it will never come on your way, but if it is yours by destiny, from you it cannot flee.”Umar ibn al Khattab (Radi Allahu Ta’ala Anhu)
I hope it will be helpful. May Allaah guide us to the straight path.
Aamiiiiiiiiin Yaa Rabb!
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