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March 14, 2020

THE TRUE MEANING OF OF LOVE

Nothing can happen without love but it's important to love the right things Allah and love the right people who are interested in helping you grow encourage you motivate you to believe in yourself and make you happy and laugh positive people not people who are negative selfish and they are too busy with work and school or something to make time for people you love all of time not just when they are sick. I don't care what society say if really love people or someone you should make it a priority to make sure that you are making time to spend with them or at text them to how they are doing and if they care about you. They are going to ask you or least really response to your text with genuine answers not just I am good or I am fine because let face the truth , I don't care what act you are playing with me but a person is never ok just fine when they say that I am fine or I am going to be ok!! If you truly love or care about someone or people you make them feel better and they are important to you so you love to make time for them. If you do not after a few days of work or the every day busy schedule ., Then you don't love or care about them truly. Also if you truly love someone you see their faults and you accept them anyway this is unconditional love and I want that someday inshallah I definitely deserve happiness everyone does

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VISIT PROFILE*SECRETS OF HAPPY MARRIAGE IN ISLAM*


*_DEAR WIFE...


*1. If you want your husband to make love to you often, have a good attitude. No matter how sexy you look or dress, your husband will not find you attractive if you have a bad attitude


*2. If you want your husband to be eating with you, be pleasant to be around. No matter how tasty your food, it loses taste when being around you is stressful


*3. If you want your husband to be opening up to you sensitive and difficult information, learn to keep secrets and not to overreact. A man refrains from sharing too much when he is scared information will be leaked or be misinterpreted


*4. If you want your husband to be praying with you, stop acting as if your prayers are more powerful or you are closer to God than him. Allow your husband to pray his kind of way


*5. If you want your husband to be taking you out often, stop bringing drama and ruining dates with issues that should be dealt with at home. No man wants to go spend time and money at a venue where he will be emotionally drained


*6. If you want your husband to solve the issues in your marriage, stop seeing yourself as the angel and him the devil, stop attacking him or labelling him as "The agent the devil is using to ruin your marriage". See also your fault, show him you are on the same team and seek solutions, not finger pointin


*7. If you want your husband to come home early, be peaceful. The wife tends to own the home and so can easily make the husband keep off if she becomes harsh, uninviting and combative


*8. If you want your husband to be chatting with you and calling you up, be fun to talk to, make him miss you. If each time he calls you or chats you up it ends up with you starting a fight, reminding him of his wrongs or ordering him around he will avoid communication with you.


9. If you want your husband to receive your suggestions and corrections then speak to him with a tone of love. If you come at him shouting, dictating at him or manipulating him he will harden up


May Allah SWT guide us to do good deeds for everyone, be the coolness to the eyes of our spouses, bring peace, tranquility and mercy in the home with the objective of  earning  Allah's pleasure, rewards and blessings

 Ameen


Assalamualaikum warahmatulahi wabarakatuh ❤️😘🙏💒👩‍❤️‍👨👨‍👩‍👧‍👦.. .***.*g*.*.*.*.*.*_*

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