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June 14, 2019

My name is Sarah Elgohary. I am 25 years old I was born with Cerebral Palsy, but despite my disability, I have managed to be a part of a mainstreamed society and I have accomplished many goals in life I have a great life. I decided today to tell my story not because I am amazing. I just a special girl who want to help people and share my experiences with the world. I have a bachelor's degree from Hofstra University in psychology and sociology. I will be a famous writer one day. I love anime ..I am a very dynamic individual who is a very hardworking, determined, attentive, responsible and versatile person believe every new life is a pure, innocent, soul waiting to find its purpose in life. As a result, I wonder what my purpose is in life I want to contribute to the world as much as my family and my friends gave me growing up with my culture, my hobbies, my writing abilities my positive experience, and my future plans. I know I have the potential to help people and make a difference in the world. I love my life even though I have no idea what my next step in life is. Alhamdulillah for everything I have. Honestly, I am truly happy and grateful blessed to have amazing family and friends a high IQ and loving personality. However, I often do Wonder what's my purpose is in life. As a devoted Muslim Allah says to worship him and follow the five pillars and pray 5 times a day, then what do you find a job or finish school. I am going to become an amazing writer and social worker.

I just have to believe in my abilities and not let my disability stand in the way of overcoming my obstacles to achieve my goals and dreams in life. want to become a counselor and make a difference in the world. By turning my individual situation of having cerebral palsy into solutions that can create a path of advocacy for people who do not have a voice in society, I believe I can enable them to be confident in their own identity. Because I have a physical disability, my experience provides me with a unique sense of empathy for those who are disabled as well as any individual seeking to discover the power of their own voice as a tool to enable them to communicate their messages and experiences in life in a peaceful way so that they make people aware of their problems without violence and fear. As a result, there are many issues that emphasize people needing a voice to advocate for themselves. As a counselor or social worker, I want to guide people to become powerful individuals despite their circumstances. One issue that is important to me is the global problem of Syrian refugees and the Syrian Civil War. I want to advocate for Syrian refugees as well as any group of people who cannot fight for themselves and help individuals discover their inner power and amplify their voice and to the world.

I graduated from New Hyde Park Memorial high school in 2011 with honors a Regents diploma and grade point average of 3.5 in addition, I received an award of two hundred dollars for most, growth, and developed as a person in six years period from my high school‘s P.A.S.T.An Association. In high school I took Spanish for three years I got a ninety-five on my Spanish regents and I got a ninety-seven on my American History regents. I was also a member of my high school‘s Spanish and Future Business Leaders of America clubs. I am now a sophomore attending Nassau Community College for liberal arts degree my grade point average is 3.75 and I am enrolled in the two plus two program, at Hofstra University which means when I am done with Nassau I will attend Hofstra University and major in psychology. In addition, during my time at Nassau Community College so I have taken three psychology classes general psychology which I got a B+ Child psychology which I got an A In and I am now taking adolescent psychology I am writing a fantasy love story that is not twenty-five pages which I hope to as a full or series one day

My mother is the most influential person in my life for many reasons. First of all, my mother was born in Egypt. Secondly, she is a very hard worker because she puts all of her energy into taking care of my brothers and me while keeping the house clean. In addition, my mother teaches kindergarten at Herrick’s school every day. I admire her determination, courage, and passion, in her heart. She never gives up without a fight. I will never understand how my mother can balance all of these challenges of life and manages to be the most positive, kind, thoughtful, and caring person I will know in life. She always puts the needs of others before her sacrifices many things to keep my family happy.

My mother is my role model. In my eyes, she is a miracle worker. Without her, I would not be who I am today. My mother and my father gave me every, single genuine personality attributes I possess. They taught me everything I know and the principles I live by such as honesty, integrity, caring for others and helping others, determination, passion, courage, and respect. My mother inspires me to never give up and to always work hard to makes my dreams come true. She is always there for me when I need her to talk and vent my feelings to her. My mother taught me to have confidence and believe in abilities, while never comparing myself to other people. Therefore, she taught me to appreciate everything I have and to help the less fortunate. I always remember that fact when my family and I visited family in Egypt last summer and I saw so many people and children sitting on the street without food, water, or shelter. I think they have kinder hearts than most Americans. When I visited Egypt even strangers were like family to me and they did not even know me, let alone have anything to their names to give despite that they will still willing to give more than they have In order to help my family and I. That really opened my eyes to how fortunate I really am in life. Finally, even though we fight sometimes I will always love my mother. I hope I can be as good a mother to children as she was to me. Family is the most important aspect taught to me by the religious principles given to me by my parents. These principles my parents gave me will stay with me for the rest of my life. My name is Sarah Elgohary . Because our society focuses on People appearance not heart The majority of people I meet see my wheelchair and disability first before they see me. The first social interaction with someone or lack thereof is a hazard of spending your life in a wheelchair, or so it seems. I wish that wasn’t case, but I can’t change the way people think, I can only change how I react to it.

I have Cerebral Palsy. It is a physical disability that was caused by a brain injury at some point during my birth. I am twenty- five and I love my life. No, you didn’t misread that last statement, I do love my life. Alhumdullah I have a great family and awesome friends, there’s not much more a girl can really ask for. I won’t lie to you and tell you that my life is all rainbows and sunshine as I seem to be, because as you probably guessed by now it’s anything but that. Throughout my twenty-two years, I have learned more than most people my age. I have struggled with my own limitations, laughed until I couldn’t breathe and felt as if I was completely alone. Yes, I’ve had a myriad of emotions about spending my life in wheelchair, but who wouldn’t?

People have often asked me if there was a cure, would I take it. My answer to this question depends on when you ask, 90% of the time it’s no because this disability has made me who I am. It is a part of me, but it doesn’t define me. However, there is other 10% of the time when I would take a cure, more than anything. The physical challenges, the feeling of betrayal by my own body can sometimes be too much for me to carry. When those times come, I think of my family and the majority of friends I have that would help me through it. Although not everyone can fully understand what those moments feel like, the fact that they would do just about anything to put a smile on face is enough for me. However, I do wish that there was someone who had lived through this before to guide me sometimes, but I have learned so much throughout my life.

There are a few lessons I’ve learned over the years that I think are really important.

My wheelchair is a part of my name

There have more times than I can count that I have been referred to as “the wheelchair girl”. Newsflash, I have a name and if you don’t know it, there are other ways to describe me. Do not call me “the wheelchair girl”, the wheelchair is not a part of my body so please, pretty please with a cherry on top, stop making it my whole identity.

It’s really hard to keep a straight face sometimes when people ask questions.

When people ask me questions, I am an open book. I would rather they ask me then speculate because I have learned that speculation is never good. I have probably been asked every question in the book, ranging from general to extremely personal. “How do move around your house?” This is a common one, I move around my house by walking on my knees because I don’t have a ramp. “Can your wheelchair climb steps?” Sadly, it can’t but that would be so cool. I can definitely say it would make my life and the lives of people around me so much easier. My favorite of all time is “Does your wheelchair go on top of you when you sleep?” I failed miserably to keep a straight face for this one. The answer is, of course, no, wheelchairs have seat belts so I get out and go about my life.

Most situations are out of my control

When you have a disability, especially a physical one, you have very little control of situations. Last year I was at school on a Saturday for an event. I was on the second floor when the fire alarm went off. I panicked because I was with other people, but in the same way, I was alone. Someone went outside of the room we were in and saw that we really did need to evacuate the building, so people started running. I grabbed my things. I left the room with the mob of people and followed the school’s procedure for events like this if only everything went that smoothly.

The public safety office told me to wait so I did, however, a few people who were at the event with me turned back and decided to wait with me. After five minutes, they decided we shouldn’t wait for public safety. One of my classmates introduced me to a friend that was waiting with us, he picked me up and carried me down the stairs. We got a few looks as he exited the building and put me on a bench outside. Somehow they were able to get my wheelchair down too. Public safety came after I was safe and sound with everyone else. Throughout the years, l have discovered that my love for writing when I use to communicate with my world

For most of my life writing has been a passion I always thought I was not very good at writing. I pretty much did if I had to write essays and research papers just for school purposes. In eighth grade, I realize that I might have a talent for writing. When I wrote a paper on the Feminist movement, which I became really interested and I must have written a really detailed paper and proven my point because my English teacher gave a ninety-six on it. He said, “I was a wonderfully gifted, writer.”I like to write because it helps me express myself and alleviate out my frustrations. Even though, I sometimes have too many ideas and details so I get off topic and do not prove my point. In fact, on my last research paper on Emily Dickinson, I received a ninety-two and I was so proud because all of that hard work paid off in the end. When I write I never have trouble coming up with ideas when I write due to the fact that I always try to relate my life experiences and how I feel to my writing, When I write I see an image of the finished product in my head before I start writing. Sometimes I know what to write on the paper without thinking. I think I have a gift for writing or at least that what people say. Now that I think about it the first person to open the revelation of writing in my eyes was my elementary school teacher Ms. Seiden. She taught me how to use details and explain my ideas in my writing. As a result, over the years I continue to practice explaining my ideas and proving my point by using a lot of details now writing is second nature. Writing has had a huge influence on my life. Writing taught me to be very patient, dedicated, and to have confidence in myself. Writing taught me to look for deeper meaning and a connection to life from literature. Writing has given me a purpose in life. I have always felt as if I was a burden to people due to my disability Yes I believe there is a future in writing for me I could write a book in five years. I started writing my own fantasy love story over the summer. Writing makes me happy because I can express myself in many different ways without being accused of being wrong in my answer when I write. Writing helps me release stress. Writing is a part of who I am as a person.

` After I graduated high school I had a three-week evaluation with Vesid. An organization that helps people with special needs learn to adapt to a college. In addition, Vestid also trains people for jobs depending on the severity of your disability. As a result, of your strengths and weakness Vesid will provide you will the best career options that meet your own abilities. I have a plan with Vesid to be a social worker specialist but I want to major psychology to be a school counselor and I want to minor in English Literature to become a writer of I become a successful writer, I want to publish my book and turn it into a movie. As a result, of my fame, I want to travel the world to visit my fans. When I find the right person I will get married and have a family live in a mansion, and buy a fancy car. I want to have to travel around the world

I am a 25-year-old, who wants to change the status quo of society. I want to make the world a better place for future generations by becoming a therapist so I can help people with their problems. This is in order to enlighten them to discover the power of their own voice. Therefore, my clients will learn to develop self-advocacy skills to make people comfortable with their identities so they are proud of their differences and are able to become powerful individuals who can overcome any obstacles. I was born with Cerebral Palsy, but despite my disability, I have managed to be a part of mainstream society and I have accomplished many goals in life. I am a hardworking, determined, attentive, responsible and versatile person. I believe in my abilities and I refuse to let my disability hinder me from achieving my goals and dreams in life. There are many people who have inspired me to discover my passion for helping others through social work, including my mother and father.

Through the social work program at Adelphi University, I am eager to become a counselor and make a difference in the world by turning my individual situation of having cerebral palsy into solutions that can create a path to advocate for people who do not have a voice in society, enabling them to be confident in their own identity. Having a physical disability, I am more empathetic to the fact that some people perform tasks in diverse ways. My experience with cerebral palsy provides me with a unique sense of empathy for those who are disabled. I want to amplify the voices of people who feel powerless or those individuals who feel they are not socially accepted. I want to enable them to have self-confidence and the ability to voice their experiences in life and opinions on world issues. As a counselor or social worker, I want to provide a platform for those individuals to speak to the world despite their circumstances.

One issue that is of particular importance to me is the global problems of Syrian refugees and the Syrian Civil War. I want to advocate for Syrian refugees, along with with people with disabilities any group of people who cannot fight for themselves. As a counselor, I want to help all individuals discover the inner power of their unique voices to make people aware of their circumstances. These people have inspired me to seek solutions for immigration and prejudice and by becoming a counselor, I can help people by fighting to bring a change to both politics and the perspectives of society towards individuals who are “different”. Amid all the Islamophobic hysteria, the United States is trying to deal with an unprecedented number of Syrian refugees entering the country in an attempt to escape the perils of the Syrian Civil War. Although we are called upon to act, our political parties are very polarized; some do not believe that the United States should play much of a role in helping refugees, directly or indirectly. Congress is heavily divided on this issue of whether to assist Syrian refugees. I believe that the only way to solve this humanitarian crisis is if Western nations and the world come together, regardless of their differences. One approach to ending this crisis would be to create solutions through a worldwide collaboration of countries sponsored by the United Nations. However, in order to find solutions to address the social barriers faced by Syrian refugees, Islamophobia must be overcome, as it is still a strong barrier to finding solutions to this social problem. In order to understand the severity and the extent of this humanitarian crisis, we need to create a context in which people can study the history of Syria. This would allow people to discover and hopefully empathize with the factors which led to the Syrian refugee crisis as a result of the Syrian Civil War.

Those who have the desire to truly understand this crisis must act like sociologists and peel away the layers individually, in order to see where the main problems are located and, ultimately, find solutions. This is why it is crucial to study the perspectives of how countries around the world and western nations, such as the United States, are dealing with the refugee crisis. Islamophobia has created hatred among the Western world against Syrian refugees, causing them to be viewed as terrorists, and worsening the problem. If Western nations viewed the Syrian refugees the same as refugees from other backgrounds, the world could potentially find a solution for this crisis. As a counselor, I recognize that although I cannot end all world conflict, I can provide people knowledge on the topic and help them utilize their voices to contribute to the fight for refugees. Through this field, I long to extend a helping hand for both those with disabilities and also those who need a voice because society has muffled their sound with unfounded discrimination by offering emotional support. I plan to create an environment that does not instill fear or any negative emotions in my clients because I want to allow people to have a space to talk freely without any judgment.

Along with my passion for this massive crisis, another factor in my life which pushes me towards this field of social work is writing. For most of my life, I thought I was not very good at writing. I pretty much only did if I had to write essays and research papers for school purposes. When I wrote a detailed paper in eighth grade describing the Feminist movement and received a grade of ninety-six percent, I realized that I might have a talent and a love for writing. My English teacher had told me that I was a “wonderfully gifted writer.” I enjoy writing because it helps me express myself and alleviate my frustrations. The first person to show me the art of writing in my eyes was my elementary school teacher, Ms. Seiden. She taught me how to utilize details to explain my ideas in my writing. Over the years, I continued to practice proving my point by using a lot of details, and now writing is second nature for me. Writing has had a huge influence on my life. It taught me valuable skills, including patience, dedication, and confidence. It also taught me to look for deeper meaning and a connection to life from literature. I have always felt as if I was a burden to people due to my disability, but now I believe there is a future in writing for me. This skill is important to me because it allows me to express myself in many different ways without being accused of being wrong.

Writing has enabled me to observe the world and its tendencies. I have learned that society tends to cast out individuals who exist outside of the small bubble known as the “normal”. From a young age, I learned that in order to reach my goals, I must employ different methods compared to others and put in more effort and dedication because it may take me longer to complete tasks due to my cerebral palsy. Having a physical disability means it is a daily struggle to perform basic life activities such as cooking, cleaning, and doing laundry. But, this does not mean that I cannot achieve my goals in life. Because certain tasks take me longer to complete, it allows me to pay more attention to details and gives me a higher sense of satisfaction when I do achieve them. Therefore, people who are not classified as “normal” by the general population are normal in their own ways. Just because some people have to adapt to work in different ways does not mean that they are not capable of accomplishing their goals in order to become successful members of society. As a counselor, I can create an environment where people are not afraid to talk about religion or social problems. I plan to open up discussions with my patients by letting them start a conversation by asking open-ended questions such as “Why do you think who are here today?” and “What makes you unique?” These conversations can help me break the ice and build a strong relationship with my patients. A part of therapy is that that therapist’s work with patients to building up a relationship with the patient so they actually feel comfortable and you cannot do that by simply asking questions for an hour. As a therapist, I will teach my patients how to take advantage of their own abilities. As a result, my clients will learn to accept their own differences and embrace their unique identities and talents because no one should ever be ashamed of who they are. No matter what life throws at you, people can always achieve their dreams and goals in life. I do not care what society says - we must cast away this false idea of what “normal” is. People must abandon their desire to be normal in order for people to embrace their differences so we can learn to help each other.

There are many different ways to help people. Among many things, my father taught me the importance of providing people with emotional support by “ being there” for someone when you are not able to them physically. .Sometimes providing emotional support to people is more important than providing physical support. My father taught me how much more powerful Emotional support than physical support as a crucial tool to help people. In addition, as a counselor, I will provide emotional support to my patients by listening to their stories and having them learn to take initiative to develop self-advocacy by leading discussions Having a physical disability means it is a daily struggle to perform basic life activities such as cooking, cleaning, and doing laundry. Therefore, I have to create different methods to accomplish my tasks. Sometimes not being able to help people physically can be very challenging, However, I get to see things from a different perspective. This allows ME to provide people or my family with different types of emotional support such as my knowledge advice, help with homework or bills being there for someone. This is what I experienced when my father was diagnosed with Cancer I could not do anything for him physically, but I sat home with him every day watched basketball with him talked to him help with phone calls listen tell him stories encourage him with positive words such be strong you will get soon inshallah I love you the most important types of emotional support are patience hugs smile and the words “ don’t worry it will be alright’ I am here for you. As a counselor, I want to provide the most positive emotional support for all my patients even if I just hold their hand or just listen to them without saying a word my father taught me how powerful emotional support truly is. As a counselor, I want to emotional support for my discussions in my therapy sessions with patients along with them the resources they need.

One person who taught me this is my mother. As my role model, she taught me the principles I live by such as empathy, integrity, determination, and respect. My mother inspires me to never give up and to always work hard to help me make my dreams come true. She taught me to have confidence and believe in my abilities by never comparing myself to others. From her, I learned to appreciate everything I have and to always help the less fortunate however I can. I always remember that fact when my family and I visited family in Egypt last summer and I saw so many people and children sitting on the street without food, water, or shelter. I think they have kinder hearts than most Americans. When I visited Egypt even strangers were like family to me and they did not even know me. Despite having barely anything to their names to give, they were still willing to give more than they have in order to help my family and I. That really opened my eyes to how fortunate I really am in life and inspired me to help people I want to give people self-advocacy to discover the power of their voices as a counselor. The principles that my family gave me will stay with me for the rest of my life.

After realizing how blessed I was in life, I decided to give back by interning at Abilities. During my internship, I worked in business communications and helped students with their resumes and cover letters. I was able to advocate for the students and highlight the qualities that made them stand out as individuals. This internship helped me realize that I want to become a therapist to help people with their problems, along with becoming an activist who speaks up for people who feel like they do not have a voice. I am a very open person and love to talk to people to express myself. As a result, I hope to make people comfortable talking about a variety of topics so we can alleviate their frustrations together. On the other hand, I am aware that there is a stigma of attending therapy, so I want to create an environment where people feel safe and comfortable to fully express themselves.

I believe the social work program at Adelphi can provide me with the skills necessary to foster my development as a force for making people understand themselves so they can reach their full potential and influence others to do the same. Through the social work program at Adelphi College I want to enhance my skills as an empathetic advocate for people, and help individuals by creating with approaches unique to their situations. I know how good it feels to have someone believe in you and bring out your full potential, so I would like to enlighten people so that they embrace their differences and highlight the qualities that make them better people. I can achieve this by using my social skills and ability to fully attach myself to something I’m passionate about to fully invest in the success of my patients. Counseling is about making connections with people, and I believe that my patience, dedication, and genuine passion make me an ideal counselor.

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