There is no such as normal

Everyone
Is normal in  their own way you are all special never forget that! No one should ever be ashamedOf who they are .Whocare what other people think . You have the power to do anyhing don't stress be happy Leave everything else to Allah saw and try your best.

  What do people desire the most in their lives? Do people want religion, attention, technology, money, fame, intelligence, or peace, love, friendship, work, motivation, they have a need to be wanted my others it is human nature. I think people have a desire to fight for an important cause and make a difference in the world to help people in order to meaning in their lives leave legacies behind to inspire young people to come together to bring the most positive change that they want to see in this world. In addition, maybe people just want friends to feel as if they belong in this world. Therefore, do people just want others to like them for who they really are as individuals? Therefore, do people just want others to like them for who they really are as individuals? Even though, the fundamentals  principals of  society  have out casted individuals who are  very different, unique “out of the  ordinary “people who are not classified as normal by the judgmental stereotypical superficial standards of society, just because some people adapt to their  environment and work (  In different ways or in a variety of  ways uniquely suited to them  example people with  disabilities or people with  uniquely different special hidden abilities that  the  majority of  the supposedly “normal”  unaccustomed people cannot see  due to their  lack of awareness and the willful ignorance ) This does not mean that these people are not normal.... The world we live in is not normal, but then again what is normal anyway?  There Is no  such thing as normal everyone  has his or her own version of normal what is normal  for one person In everyday life might not be normal for me or you so therefore people are all normal In their own personal perspective so be who you are or who you want to be  free have fun.  Do not give into peer pressure you are your own person unique and special Individuals in your own way know that they are accepted in society. On the other hand, people can admire a person for standing up for what they believe in, in order to fight for justice, to make a difference and change the world. The truth is nobody knows what the answer is to what people desire the most out of life. Is it possible for one person to desire too much out of life?  As a result, the desires of the human heart are too irresistible to control. Although, the most important aspect to remember is how people use their hearts desires to impact the world.  Every person has a very unique personality with different interests, along with his or her own, dreams and goals to achieve in life. As a result, it is impossible to tell what each person desires in this world. This is a mystery that has eluded mankind since the dawn of time. As a result, this makes some people’s minds wonder deep inside their souls to seek the potential they have to make their talents blossom into something great that they can offer the world. This is in order to make a difference and help change the world for the better of humanity during their lifetime. The mystery of what mankind desires most out of their subconscious minds, hearts, and souls is the unsolved. This is why people fantasize.  Fantasies make the world seem like a better place to live because the subconscious mind does not have any limitations. This leads people to dream of their desires that they want to make into a reality. Most people dream of a perfect world! Do you image a perfect world where all of your heart’s desires can come true? 

    

I have learned that society tends to cast out individuals who exist outside of the small bubble known as the “normal”, whether it is due to their religion or a disability. From a young age, I learned that in order to reach my goals, I must employ different methods compared to others and put in more effort and dedication because it may take me longer to complete tasks due to my cerebral palsy. Having a physical disability means it is a daily struggle to perform basic life activities such as cooking, cleaning, and doing laundry. But, this does not mean that I cannot achieve my goals in life. Because certain tasks take me longer to complete, it allows me to pay more attention to details and gives me a higher sense of satisfaction when I do achieve them. 

Sometimes not being able to help people physically can be very challenging.  But what I realized I am very good at is being empathetic and offering emotional support. This is what I experienced when my father was diagnosed with Cancer.  I could not do anything for him physically, but I sat home with him every day keeping him company and encouraging him with positive words.  This experience made me realize that I want my future career to involve this individual care for people. I am not normal but that is ok. As a counselor I want to  make people comfortable  in their own skin  as a result people can  use their own voice to convey their message and experience  in addition As a counselor I  will provide emotion support  to my patient by listening to their story and having  them take institutive to develop self advocacy by leading discussions .Sometime will provide emotion support  to my patients  is more important than physical support emotion support is more powerful tool than physical support . Having a physical disability means it is a daily struggle to perform basic life activities such as cooking cleaning and doing laundry therefore I have to create different methods to accomplish my tasks.  Sometimes  not being able  to help  people  physically  can be very challenging  but I get to see things  from a different  perspective   that allows to provide people or my family with different  type  of emotional  support such as my knowledge  advice  help with  homework or bills being there  for someone.  This is  what I experienced  when my father  was diagnosed with Cancer   I could not do anything  for him physically,  but I sat home with him every day  watched basketball with him talked to him help with phone calls listen tell him stories  encourage  him with positive  words  such be strong you will get soon inshallah I love you   the most important types of emotional support are patience  hugs  smile  and the words “ don’t worry  it will  be alright’ I am here for you.   As a counselor I want to provide  the most positive emotional support for all my patients  even if I just hold their hand  or just listen to them without saying  a word   my father thought me  how powerful  emotional support  truly is.